Sunday, November 02, 2008

女儿眼中的妈妈

下午在和女儿丫丫玩儿听写游戏,说道“小”的笔划。坐在一旁的妈妈纠正我到:“应该是竖钩,撇,点”我却坚持“竖钩,点,点”两个人僵持不下,于是开始打赌。我问老妈,"那你输了怎么办呢?" 坐在一边的老公说,“输了就再住半年?”老妈居然笑着说“再住半年就再住半年!”本来我只是和妈妈斗嘴玩儿,立马兴奋起来,“真的?真的再住半年?”也许是我的兴奋带动了孩子们, 丫丫也跟着我楼上楼下地跑着查正确笔划。不知道是因为一向敏感的女儿感觉到了妈妈内心希望能和姥姥姥爷在一起的感受,还是看到妈妈少有的激动兴奋,晚上洗澡前,丫丫突然开始和我交谈,

---Mommy, if you love your mommy and daddy so much, why do you choose to live so far, far away from them?
--Huh?
--Is that because the last place you visited is United States and you like it?
--Yeah. I like this country when i visited here. That's why I decided to stay. But still I miss my parents and wish they could stay longer.
--Then why don't you let them stay longer?
--Eh, because I know they don't like it here. They are lonely and miss their own home.
--You mean, because they can not understand what people are saying, so they can not speak to other people but you?
--Yeah. 所以妈妈才希望你多跟他们聊天。别玩得忙起来就不理他们了。
--嗯。

不知道为什么突然感到,在这个陌生忙碌的城市,天天跟老公抱怨,一向身边离不开朋友,如今却找不到朋友的我,似乎已经可以和女儿倾诉一些过去只给朋友倾诉的心情。

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