I have to admit that i am not a good mother. I feel so bad this morning about myself after talking to Yaya's teacher about my concern.

Yaya has been having a little more potty accidents than she used to lately. I began to worry when sometimes i was informed that it wasn't while she was napping. This Monday, she had one during lunch. Then Tuesday, she got another wet pants. I had to admit that i was already a little upset upon seeing the wet pants in the locker, therefore, i wasn't patient and nice enough to ask her how and when the accident happened. I must have been sort of pushy while i was asking. She was not as upset as i thought a kid with an accident should be, which made me mad. I guess under the pressure to please mommy, she told me she didn't tell the teacher during nap while she was awake, and very firmly promised me that she will let the teacher know next time if she needs to go to the bathroom. But Tina didn't think that was the case---she actually had pants wet during sleep and whenever she had an accident, she became very upset and unusually quiet----she is sad about it as a kid should be. Oh, what did i do to her? I kept giving her pressure on this matter, just because i thought she didn't have the right attitude. What a bad mom of me! I told myself a million times to listen patiently to my kids, but still, i am not listening at all! I feel so bad for Yaya, sorry, my little girl. I need to apologize to her. i do. Sorry.